Fear of Judgement

We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are. We all have our own unique lens that we see the world through based on our beliefs and experiences.

We think we all see the world the same. We think everyone is thinking about us, the things we worry about, and things the same way we do. We are so consumed by things that bother us that we assume everyone else is thinking about it as well. That’s not the case. Everyone is laser focused on their own shit that has nothing to do with you. Nothing is personal. Everyone sees the world differently. Everyone has a unique story. Everyone is doing the best they can. Extend compassion to everyone. Realize everyone is projecting (whether they like it or not) and nothing is personal, so let go of others and focus on you.

How you view yourself is how you view others and the world.

What you judge in yourself is what you judge in others.

What you judge in others is something you are judging in yourself.

It’s all a mirror.

The more you don’t accept parts of yourself, the more you attract people that also don’t accept those same parts of themselves. It perpetuates the cycle, you attract ppl similar to you yet, those same ppl are the ones you don’t want to attract.

Face the parts of yourself you don’t want to face and then you free yourself.

Free yourself from judgment, and accept yourself, love yourself, and begin to attract the right people that make you feel at home, elevated, inspired, and allow you to be, be, just yourself.

When you’re fearing judgment from someone else, it has absolutely nothing to do with them. It’s an internal projection you are placing onto that person. Instead of worrying about what someone else is going to judge about you, switch the script and ask yourself what you are judging within yourself. You attract similar people to you. Don’t like that? Start accepting parts of yourself you don’t accept or like. Then you’ll attract the people you want. The raw unfiltered parts that you don’t let into this world. And you’ll let go of the judgments. Let go of worrying what people think. Let go of worrying what you think and start living out your wildest dreams. Rather than focus on people judging you, focus on how you want to feel and what you truly desire. Put energy into creating your dream life. 

Stop making decisions based on others. Stop avoiding risks and action because you’re worried about the judgments of others.

Your dream life is on the other side of you letting go what other people think about you!